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  The Open Closed Code

If you'd love for others to join the conversation, add [JOIN] to the beginning of your message title. Stalkers, please join these conversations! If you are okay with others joining the conversation, even though you may not be enthusiastic about it, add an [OPEN] to the beginning of your message title. Stalkers, please only join these conversations if you have something that you'd absolutely want to say! A.k.a., don't just join for the sake of joining. (if possible, please wait 6-8 hours before responding so I have a chance to respond!) If you'd rather the conversation be just between you and me, add a [CLOSED] to the beginning of your message title. Stalkers, please do not join these conversations. If you'd like no stalkers to even see or read the message(s), add a [PRIVATE] to the beginning of your message title. Stalkers, please do not even view these conversations for the privacy of the users.

If there is no [JOIN], [OPEN] , [CLOSED] , or [PRIVATE] , the thread is automatically an [OPEN] one. In emergencies, the Open Closed Code excludes administrators.

Put this in your Message Wall Greeting to apply to your Message Wall, using the code.